Let’s get one thing straight: dating a man ruled by lust is like subscribing to heartbreak on auto-renewal. No matter how much love, attention, or effort you give, it will never be enough. Lust is a bottomless pit—he will always crave more. And before you know it, you’re out here competing with Instagram baddies, OF models, and his own lack of self-control.
Girl, The Red Flags Are Redder Than Ever
Lustful men aren’t just walking red flags—they’re full-blown hazard zones. If he’s doing any of the following, RUN, don’t walk:
- Watching porn like it’s his full-time job and defending it like his life depends on it.
- Eyeing other women while you’re literally in the same room.
- Moving mad on social media—thirst-trap interactions, “liking” every bikini pic, and sliding into DMs like he’s scouting talent. Yes! What he likes on socials counts too.
- Making you feel like your only value is how you look or what you can do for him in private.
If any of this sounds familiar, congrats—you’re dating a man whose loyalty is about as stable as the UK weather.
Can He Change? Maybe, But That’s Not Your Problem
Here’s the gag: men can overcome lust, but only if they actually want to. And most don’t. At least, not until they’ve wasted their prime years chasing empty hookups and losing the one woman who truly had their back. That’s when they suddenly want to “settle down.” Convenient, right?
But by then? The damage is done. And if you stick around thinking you’ll be the exception, you’ll just end up another chapter in his “I fumbled a real one” story arc.
The Best “Fix” for a Lustful Man? BLOCK AND DELETE.
Stop playing therapist to men who wouldn’t hesitate to embarrass you publicly for a quick dopamine hit. The only way to win with a man like this is to let someone else take the L. Love should feel safe, respected, and cherished—not like an unpaid internship where you’re constantly proving your worth.
So, sis, pack up your dignity, block his number, and leave him to his own self-inflicted downfall. The streets can have him.