when someone compliments them, they say thank you.
They don’t self depreciate themselves by going “no no im so ugly” or whatever, but they don’t say something like “yeah i know.” either. show your gratitude, but don’t let it get to your brain. Try self mastery
They take care of themselves.
They make sure to show themselves just as much love as they show everyone else because they know they deserve it just as much as anyone else. ~Prioritise selfcare
They show up for themselves.
When they say something, they do it. when they want something, they work to get it. when you feel sad and hurt, you yourself should be the first person to come and support yourself.
They take up space
because they know they are allowed to. they know they deserve it. why would they try to become smaller? for who are you doing that for? literally no one cares and it just looks pathetic. take up space honey, you’re allowed to.
They like what you see in the mirror
when i look in the mirror, no matter how i look- whether im sweating and crusty musty dusty or even all glammed up- i always love myself. why? because i know that i am not what i look like. i know i am beautiful, but that is not the only admirable thing about me!
Is not scared of being alone.
who cares? literally who cares? confident people know that no one cares. people look at you because they may be curious or just looking around, but then you don’t stay in their mind all day, okay? other people couldn’t care less and neither should u!